Can i spread this to my girlfriend?

ok well it is possible to give her mono just from kissing her and i was just reading about that lastnight from what i've read it says by the time everyone is 30-45 mostly everyone would have contracted mono b.k.a the kissing disease it is a virus so it never leaves it is some sort of strand of but not hsv-1 or hsv-2 its called the epstein barr virus and can be ped at any time it is not dangerous but it can make you really tired alot and cause swollen lymph nodes and sore throat, white bumps inside of throat not sure if it can be ped to the but im sure if itis a virus it is possible on the case of gonn or chlam...you should get your throat cultured and treated because those are curable and and keep from the virus from acting worse from the secondary infection as opposed to the ebv virus being there alone. try to talk to her about your issues she may respect you more 4 it. maybe shell go with you to get checked.